Online and Offline: It’s All Real

by Aaron on December 23, 2009

Computer Data OutputWhen personal computers still cost multiple thousands of dollars and the internet was somewhere that only technical geeks would be found, the term IRL came to mean “in real life” as opposed to an online interaction.

Here’s a reality check for those using the internet in 2009: online life and offline life are one and the same. In order to be authentic and in order to be trustworthy, your clients, colleagues, and other associates are going to expect that you are one person. As you build offline client relationships, those clients are going to expect you’ll treat them in a similar manner online. As you meet and get to know people online, your first offline encounter will be a continuation of the trust and relationship that has developed.

We’ve moved beyond the point where we think of online and offline as separate worlds. Your Facebook site is you. Twitter is real life.

Photo by JoshuaDavisPhotography. COM, used under Creative Commons licensing

  • http://couldbestudios.com/ Matt Beck

    Well put.

    The time for secondary online personae is gone.

    Be yourself online, treat your online interactions the same way you would any other personal interaction, and realize that the fear that prompted us to hide our identities online in the early days was in retrospect kind of silly.

  • http://twitter.com/dougcoleman Doug Coleman

    Well put Aaron, but it's a shame you have to tell people that. When I first started interacting online it did not even occur to me that my online persona should differ from what I am in real life. I will admit though, I do filter myself a little, both online and off. Those of us with a smart-ass nature and a potty mouth have to have some sort of filter ;)

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